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Sunday, August 3, 2014

Whitmores Take the Midwest

Disclaimer: This is a travel log for myself...lots of details and lots of photos.  

This year for the Whitmore family reunion, they decided to go to Nauvoo and Chicago, IL. Ten years ago, Josh's grandfather passed away. The year he passed, the family had already made reservations to go to Nauvoo. Someone suggested that on the ten year anniversary of his passing, the family would go to Nauvoo in his remembrance. 

I think I was one of the few family members who was totally excited for Nauvoo. The only church sites I've seen have seen are in Utah. Since I've married Josh, I've been able to do the earlier church sites that are on the east coast.  

On the way to Nauvoo, we stopped at the train station to help the 40 family members that flew into Chicago and took the train down into Burlingotn, IA; due to the fact it was late and there were only two 15-passenger vans rather than three (like what was supposed to be originally). We ate at Perkins while we waited and eventually were able to get everyone to Nauvoo. We rented two big houses, side by side. Every room had a bathroom. Each house had a kitchen and family room. It was a great set up! 

My first time crossing the Mississippi...by car

We may have left the van doors open when we went to lunch.  Whoops!
Once we arrived in Nauvoo, it was very late. We all gathered in the family room and did a little commemoration of Grandpa Whitmore. His kids told of what they learned from him and a few others told stories. I do wish I could have met Kay and seen what kind of man he was for myself. Luckily, he left a great legacy and it's nice to continue to hear stories of him. 

The next day was Sunday. We all got up early to go to church at 8:00 to the missionary/visitor ward. It seriously looked like two stake conferences combined! There were so many people! After Sacrament meeting, we all got ready to go to Carthage, IL, had lunch and toured Carthage Jail. 






Carthage Jail is the site of where the first prophet of our church was shot and killed. It was nothing how I thought it was going to look or be. Apparently, Sunday is the busiest day of the week. We waited a while in line and eventually got into the jail. It was so interesting. I had no idea that a family that owned and lived in the jail. There were a couple rooms upstairs used for the prisoners and that's where Joseph Smith was with three other men, including his brother, Hyrum, who was also killed. It was a very emotional tour. 

 



Visitor Center- where the tour began
Going into the jail from the backside
The jail was a family's home that they rented the upstairs as the jail.  This was the kitchen.  The bed was if someone was ill and couldn't go upstairs for whatever reason. 
The stairs that the mob rushed up.
The room that Joseph and Hyrum were shot in. 
The bullet hole of the bullet that shot Hyrum Smith in the face.
Top window is where Joseph was shot and fell out of.
 

On the way back to Nauvoo, we stopped to take some pictures at the temple.  Wow!  It is beautiful and knowing the history of it, makes it that much more special. The grounds are beautiful and it looks over the Mississippi River. If Charlotte wanted to get married there, I would not be opposed! 







 

That night we went to a production of hit and Broadway songs. There are service missionaries that audition and come for the summer to perform.  It was an excellent show. It made me think of my Charlotte and of course, got very emotional. Let's just say, I think I cried at one point during every show! I'm such a crier! 


Later that evening, we did the Trail of Hope. This is the trail down Parley Street that the pioneers took to cross the Mississippi River and continue in their journey west. It put things into perspective. Some of us were complaining we were too tired and cold (yes, it got very chilly that night) and they started talking about the pioneers walking in the freezing snow having just left all their possessions. We stopped complaining very quickly! It does make you appreciate EVERYTHING you have when you hear stories of the pioneers. We walked all the way down to the Mississippi River and tried to imagine teams of handcarts crossing the frozen waters. 

Monday, we barely made the 10:00 endowment session at the temple! The inside was much smaller than I thought, but it was beautiful. I loved every minute of it. 

Afterward, Josh and I went to lunch with the Jensen's (Josh's aunt and uncle and their kids). Thanks for letting us tag along! We ate at Grandpa John's. Doesn't that sound like a pioneer-town restaurant? There are only a few places to eat in the town, so the food situation was very limited. 

Later that afternoon, we all drove over to Hannibal, Missouri. It's smack dab in the middle of the state! We walked around the town where Mark Twain lived, toured caves where Jesse James hid and then that night went on a dinner cruise. The dinner cruise was definitely a highlight so far! 


 







 

 
 
Some of the family members went to the movies after, of course my husband, and one van went back to the houses. I stayed up late talking to Jen (Josh's cousin) and didn't go to bed until well after Josh came home. Pretty much every night was a late night. But that's always how it is when family get together! 

Tuesday, we pretty much hit the ground running! We started with a production of "Just Plain Anna Amanda." It was a kids show but it was entertaining. Once the show ended, we started touring all the little buildings and homes on Main Street. 



A group of us got together for the performance, "The Promise." Like all the other shows, it was about the saints in Nauvoo. It was entertaining! 

 Interestingly enough, some of the buildings in Nauvoo are owned by the Community of Christ, a break off of the Mormon church that believed the next prophet should be a descendant of Joseph Smith. Because of this, all the Joseph Smith buildings belong to that church. We didn't have enough time to do a tour of the Joseph Smith mansion before our dinner plans ,but we did walk around with Christian and Drew (two of Josh's cousins), see the Smith homestead, and the Smith family cemetery. I loved that everything overlooks the Mississippi river. It's so beautiful and peaceful.






For dinner, we all met at Hotel Nauvoo for their famous buffet. It was really good food and a relaxing time to finally sit and enjoy one another company. 






Josh wasn't feeling well all through dinner, so while we went back to the house to rest, everyone else went to the "fair" and engaged in pioneer games and activities. This was before the Nauvoo pageant started. We went over a little before the show. All of the Whitmores have been involved with the Hill Cumorah pageant, but I've never seen any of the church's pageants. I was excited to see it. I did fall asleep through more than half (for some reason I was exhausted). I woke up for the most important part, the end. Again, it was about Joseph Smith and the saints. It is a fairly new production (10 years old) and I thought it was well done. I can't wait to one day, see the other pageants. 








Wednesday morning is when everyone left Nauvoo and later that day arrived in Chicago for the remaining part of our trip! 



Saturday, July 26, 2014

Giddy Up

Is this post necessary?  Oh yes!!  Charlotte's first time horseback riding happened this morning.  It was too big of an event to combine it with the rest of our travels, so here are the deets.
 
Josh and I are on our way to Illinois (Nauvoo and Chicago) for a Whitmore family reunion; but our first stop was going to Kentucky to drop Charlotte off.  Yes, I know it's a family reunion, but the thought of dragging her in the heat and humidity of the Midwest, in and out of little pioneer homes, did not sound like a vacation to me.  With that said, Rachel (Josh's older sister) and Eve (my MIL) agreed to watch Charlotte.  She is going to have so much MORE fun hanging out with her cousins and playing for a week straight.  I can't wait to hear about her little vacay :) 
 
This morning, before taking off, Kevin's mother (Rachel's MIL) set up a fun little private field trip (basically) for the little kids to meet some horses and actually ride them!  Soon as I heard of this, I knew Charlotte would love it.  

We crossed the bridge from Louisville into Indiana and found ourselves out in the country.



Can you tell I was a little skeptical about being that close to a horse?
  First up was Bennett.  The oldest.  The example.  And the most brave.  



The girls watching Bennett
Tess...the proud sister
Then Liam.

Then Charlotte and Bennett.  Thanks Bennett for holding on to Charlotte.  




I tried to zoom in on this picture so you can see the smile on her face.
She was having a ball.  I could hear her talking while riding around.  She was in heaven.  The other horse, not be ridden, started freaking out a bit.  I thought, oh great, while my child is out there something is going to happen.  Nothing happened!  At one point, the saddle started slipping.  Bennett had a good hold on to Charlotte and the guy who owned the horses acted so quickly! 

 I am so glad Charlotte enjoyed her first time on a horse.  Who knows, maybe we have a future jockey on our hands!  
 
All the kiddos enjoyed watching the horses, a tour of the barn and horse trailer, and playing around.  Thank you Terri for setting all this up.  It was a fun morning!    


Sunday, July 20, 2014

Thoughts on North Carolina

I thought I would sit down tonight and write down my thoughts on how this move has been and currently is.  
 
At first, the sound of moving to Charlotte was so exciting.  I applied Josh for the position he eventually took, I did the research in the housing market...never thinking that it would really happen.  At least so quickly! I thought I would live in southern California forever, or for a while.  But Josh had other plans!
We left Orange County without a tear.  Is that horrible?  I cried a ton when we left Provo, but not where I grew up?  We were ready for a life of financial freedom!!  Woohoo!!
 
The move took place over the holidays and Josh and I were apart for too long.  He had to start training and I stayed at my parents house in Utah.  I am pretty sure this is what resulted in Charlotte's one-nap-a-day.  The whole time I was so excited to get to my new house that we had already purchased and were to close on the last day of the year, before we even moved in (which we will NEVER do again).  
Once we arrived, it was fun and exciting...for about a week.  Then everything set in and I acted like a teenager whose life was over.  I was super depressed because it was freezing (Polar Vortex sound familiar?) and I didn't know what to do besides stay home.  Luckily, there is a Target and huge shopping center about a mile from my front door.  I went there a lot.  I had a lot of decorating to do.  We had to buy furniture, sell furniture, paint, put blinds up, get our backyard set up, and the list goes on and on.  First of all, we didn't realize how much money a NEW house demands.  And we have a townhouse.  I can't imagine having to set up a single-family house!  I had my moments where I loved living here and starting our new life and then I had more moments where I just wanted to live back in my two-bedroom apartment in the sunshine.  I was all over the place, as you can imagine.  Poor Josh.  I put on a good face out in public, for the most part.  What was the ultimate turning point?  My trip to California in May.
I had been looking forward to this trip literally, since I found out we were moving.  I couldn't wait to come back and see everyone and go to Disneyland and the beach and hang out in all my favorite places.  Well, the trip was so much fun and all the wedding festivities kept me super busy.  Going to Disneyland with Charlotte (for the 98th time) was also a blast!!  But the entire week was overcast and I didn't do anything (besides Disneyland) that I couldn't do in Charlotte.  I was going to lunch with friends, going shopping at the mall, doing Target runs, going back to the house for Charlotte to take a nap, you get the point.  It was such an eye opener.  Since I arrived back home, I have tried to have a better attitude.
NOW, I am loving my life.  I love the life that Josh and I are creating for our family.  There are lots of things to do here in Charlotte.  We go to the waterpark frequently, we are exploring the city and surrounding towns, we enjoy the different libraries, we go shopping, and hang out with our friends...things we would be doing in whatever city we lived in.  Sure the weather isn't Orange County and it rains more than I like, but whatever.  For us, it has turned out to be such a great experience so far.  There are so many things that have happened since we have arrived.  Charlotte is a little spit-fire and keeps us on our toes constantly.  She has done the most memorable things since we have been here.  I have become a true stay-at-home mother, rarely leaving the house, unless I really need too.  I have learned so much about myself as well.  I am trying new things...painting my own nails, using the Dave Ramsey envelope system, stay home more and be productive where it matters, and other things that will bore you.  I love being a mother to Charlotte.   She is teaching me new things daily, especially patience.  She makes me laugh so much everyday.  Charlotte truly has become my BFF and I hope it's that way our whole life!  We have made some great friends, that Charlotte adores!!  What a blessing friends are when you are so far from family!  
 
As much as I struggled when we first got here, I truly feel like Charlotte is my home and I know that feeling will just increase the longer I'm here.  Of course I miss the family get-togethers and seeing everyone frequently, but for our family, we wanted to be our own, be independent and really challenge ourselves.  Every family is different and you have to do what's right for you!  I have a feeling we will be here in CLT for a long time.  Whether we are or not, or if we move somewhere else, I feel like this move has showed me I can live just about anywhere!  I can't wait to see what Charlotte has in store for us! 
 
Pics from the weekend:
Friday- Brusters
Saturday- ImaginOn (squished face)
Sunday- Nursery
     

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

I Scream, You Scream

This morning, we started the day off at Target helping our friends pick out outfits for thir family pictures. I am very flattered when people ask me clothes advice. I don't think I'm the best dresser, but I do love shopping and have fun putting outfits together!! 


After we had much success at the (second) happiest place on earth, we headed to SC to our favorite ice cream place, Brusters. Charlotte did an amazing job not getting ice cream all over! I was so impressed. Practice makes perfect ;) The kids loved running all over the patio area (luckily, we were the only ones there) and thought they were so big sitting on the kids bench. Charlotte loves seeing Kira and Isak...BFF's :)




Thanks Becky for treating us to ice cream! 

Friday, July 4, 2014

Home of the Free and the Brave

There hasn't been too much going on since we've been back from D.C.  We were supposed to go to the beach, Charleston, SC, this weekend, but when we heard that Hurricane Arthur was hitting the east coast, we cancelled our hotel and decided on a stay-cation, instead.  We have had great weather...some of you have been texting me and asking.  It's so crazy to know that hurricanes and tornadoes are so close to us.  I've never had to worry about natural disasters...except earthquakes, I guess.  So what have we done during our stay-cation?  Well, not that much.  And nothing out of the ordinary.  
Josh had taken off Thursday (yesterday), so we headed to IKEA, Hobby Lobby and World Market to get a few things for the house.  We are trying to finish decorating the loft, put the remaining curtains up and a few loose ends here and there.  We figured we use our hotel refund towards the house.  It was a long day, but got some fun stuff to spruce up the house.  I seriously have decorating ADD...always moving things around and rearranging (I'm my mother's child for sure)!  
 
Yesterday was the 4th of July and we had a relaxing, long day.  It started with relaxing around the house in the morning and then our BBQ plans fell through so we went to Qdoba Mexican Grill for lunch with our friends, the Nyborgs.   
 

Don't know why I look so crazy in this picture...
 
 
Afterward, we went and got our swimsuits on and went over to Carowinds.  Our favorite place here in the Carolinas ;)  Apparently everyone in the southeast had the same idea we did.  There were a gazillion people.  Kind of like if you went to Disneyland on July 4th.  But Josh said it was very appropriate for the holiday...like in "Sandlot." It was fun finally having Josh with us while we played in the kiddie pool.  Charlotte had the time of her life.  It was really hot too, so it was a nice way cool off. 
The rest of the day, we stayed in. The sun totally wiped us out. And Charlotte didn't take a nap, so there was no way I was keeping her up to watch fireworks! It took us a while to get her to bed.  Luckily, the local fireworks didn't wake her up.  We watched a few from the upstairs windows (we couldn't see them if we walked outside) and just laid around and were lazy.  I love holidays for that reason!  
 
I am so grateful to be an American and live in a country where I have the ability to choose what I want to do.  What religion I want to practice, what schools I want to go too, where I want to live, who I want to marry....all those decisions have been my own.  I think we take for granted the amazing country we really do live in.  I know I do.  I try my hardest to appreciate everything I have and all the freedoms I get to enjoy and the men and woman to fight for our country everyday; who leave their families and serve for ME!  THANK YOU!  I hope everyone had a great 4th of July!!
 

Life According to My iPhone

I have been a little MIA from the blog lately, so I thought I would just post a run down of photos I have been taking (mainly of Charlotte) and get you all up to date on what's been going on with the Whitmores :)
  
First Ponytail
Another day at Carowinds...she was having fun. I promise!
I'm trying...she just laughs when I put her on.
Sold her crib.
We bought her a set of golf clubs.  Hello LPGA (thanks "Once Upon A Child")!
First playland.  Yes, Josh went all the way up with her.  The things he does for her.
Play date at the Nyborgs ended up with Charlotte taking over the pool...
...and the teddy bears.
She played dress up.  All on her own.  Well she went and got the dresses and gave them to me to put them on her.  We went through three outfits.